Matchmakers can help you a lot with finding and meeting potential partners. However, even the best Christian dating services won’t be able to do a thing if you aren’t ready. Here are some tips to help you:
Be honest
A lot of matchmaking services use programs as one of the ways to pair up clients with similar interests. While that’s not all they do—they analyze your dating patterns, history and personality as well, among other things—that profile is an essential part of the process. That’s why you should be as honest as possible when you fill that form up. Don’t try to be something you’re not. Besides, matchmakers are often astute. If they find out you’re not entirely being honest, that could doom your application before it even gets started.
Commit to it
Don’t have much time to date or don’t know where to start? Can’t seem to meet the right people? All those are good reasons to hire a professional matchmaker. But you need to be engaged in the process too. You need to commit to it.
Crosswalk says it would be best to tell your date that you’re entertaining matches. That helps get the awkwardness out of the way.
The people you have decided to meet have been vetted for you and with the personal bio and pictures of each member provided to you for your approval, you will have enough information to decide to meet or not. A great matchmaker should always be on target when suggesting an introduction.
Be curious about them. Spend that time getting to know each other. Ask about their church or ministry.
A first right date can last you a lifetime.
